The Power of the Emotional Bond with Newborns: How They Sense Their Mother’s Feelings

The emotional bond with your newborn is one of the most profound experiences you’ll have as a parent. It starts before your baby is even born and continues to grow as you nurture them through their earliest days. But have you ever thought about how deep that connection truly goes? And how you can preserve it for years to come through photography?

In this blog post, we’ll explore the science behind the emotional bond between a mother and her newborn, why it’s so vital for both the baby and the parent, and how capturing these moments through newborn photography helps keep that bond alive forever.

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The Emotional Bond with Your Newborn: A Powerful Connection

Parenthood starts with an emotional journey like no other. From the first moments you meet your baby, the love you feel is overwhelming, and the bond that forms in the early days is unbreakable. But what makes the connection so special is that it’s not just about the love we feel for our babies; it’s also about how our babies feel about us. Newborns are highly sensitive to their environment, and one of the things they are incredibly sensitive to is their mother’s emotions.

The Science Behind Emotional Synchronisation

Researches in developmental psychology show that babies are born with finely tuned senses, capable of detecting changes in their mother’s emotions. Newborns are able to pick up on subtle shifts in their mother’s facial expressions, body language, and tone of voice. These emotional cues from mum help babies feel safe, loved, and comforted—important elements that help newborns adapt to their new world outside the womb.

One fascinating study found that newborns can synchronize their breathing and heart rate with their mother’s when they are held close, skin-to-skin. This synchronisation is a type of emotional resonance, a natural bond that ensures the baby feels secure, creating a sense of comfort and trust. When babies feel their mother’s calm presence, they too become calm. On the flip side, if the mother is anxious, the baby may respond to those emotions as well.

Emotional Impact on Parenting and the Power of Presence

As parents, our emotional state has a profound effect on our babies. If you’re feeling stressed or anxious, your baby may mirror those emotions and become fussy or unsettled. On the other hand, when you’re calm and happy, your baby can feel that energy too, and they’re more likely to be content and relaxed.

It’s no wonder why it’s so important for new mothers to take care of their mental and emotional well-being, especially in the early days of parenthood. Positive and calm emotions are not only beneficial for the mother, but they help create a safe environment for the baby to thrive in. And while it’s completely normal to experience a mix of emotions during the adjustment to motherhood, knowing that your emotions have such an impact on your baby helps reinforce the importance of self-care.

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Mum cuddling her newborn baby during a photoshoot with Valentina, London baby photographer

Capturing the Connection Through Newborn Photography

As a newborn photographer, one of the most beautiful parts of my job is witnessing the intimate bond between a mother and her newborn. There’s something truly special about capturing those first moments of love, comfort, and connection. The closeness shared in a newborn photography session tells the story of a mother’s love and her baby’s comfort.

Through photography, I get to freeze those fleeting moments of emotional connection between mum and newborn, preserving them for the future. From a gentle touch to the shared gaze, these intimate moments are reminders of the unspoken bond that’s formed in the early days.

When you look back at photos from a newborn session, you are not just seeing images of a tiny baby in cute outfits or sweet poses. You’re seeing the emotional connection between mother and child—a bond that goes beyond words. As your baby grows, these photos become treasures, a way to relive the magic of the early days and a reminder of how deeply you’ve connected from the start.

How Photography Helps Reconnect Us with Those Early Moments

Many of us can relate to the feeling of wanting to capture every single moment of our baby’s life, but the reality is that those moments can slip away so quickly. Newborn photography helps preserve the most precious memories—memories that you will cherish forever.

What makes newborn photos so powerful is that they go beyond just documenting the baby’s appearance. They capture emotions, connections, and the first milestones of the parent-child journey. Whether it’s a photo of the baby gazing up at mum or a quiet moment of skin-to-skin contact, these images represent the love and bond that are so strong in those early days.

As parents, these photographs serve as a testament to the strength, beauty, and resilience of both mother and baby. They help us remember the emotional rollercoaster of becoming a parent and the profound connection that forms when you hold your little one in your arms.

Investing in newborn photography is not just about having beautiful images—it’s about capturing a meaningful moment in time. These photos are not just for you, but also for your child. As they grow older, they’ll look at these pictures and see the love and care that surrounded them in their earliest days. They’ll see the faces of the people who were there for them from the very beginning, and they’ll understand the bond that tied them together. Photography is a way to preserve the stories of our lives.

Related article: Storytelling: Photos that Capture the Heart and Soul

collage of photos of mums and their newborn during a newborn phot shoot in London

Conclusion

The emotional bond with your newborn is something truly magical. It’s a bond that goes beyond words and can be captured beautifully through photography. It’s a wonderful way to honour your journey as a parent and to ensure those precious moments are remembered for years to come.

Have you experienced a deep emotional connection with your newborn?

I’d love to hear your story in the comments below!

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This is part of Reflections Beyond the Frame, a personal series about slowing down, looking inward, and seeing ourselves without the need for polish or perfection.

Today’s reflection: Letting go.

Perfection has held me back for years, since school, in motherhood, and through the slow unfolding of my business.

I thought striving for it meant reaching for something better. But lately, I’ve been asking: what is perfection, really?

It’s not real.
It’s not shared.
It only exists in my mind—and even there, it shifts constantly.
It often disguises itself as fear:
Fear of not being good enough.
Fear of being judged.
Fear of being truly seen.

So if perfection is born from fear…
What are we really striving for?

What looks “perfect” to me might mean nothing to someone else.

So why chase something that holds me back more than it helps me move forward?

This photo is part of that question.
A self-portrait.
An exercise in showing up blurry, unfinished, imperfect—real.
Letting go isn’t always graceful.
Sometimes it’s quiet.
A small shift.
A decision to be soft where I used to hold tension.
To show up as I am.
To be seen anyway.

Progression is now my mantra.

Not perfection. Just movement. Just honesty.
Just me.

What have you been holding onto that no longer serves you? Maybe today’s the day to let it go.

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Post-pregnancy body changes are real and it’s okay if you’re not feeling like yourself right away.

Your body has done something incredible. It’s carried life, endured change, and deserves so much more than criticism. It deserves care. Patience. Kindness.

The stretch marks. The softness. The shifts in shape. They’re not flaws, they’re part of your story.

Let this be your reminder:
You don’t need to bounce back.
You don’t need to be “done” healing.
You just need to meet yourself with compassion.
Tag a fellow mum who might need to hear this today. 🤍

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Giggles on demand.
Wearing your best neutral and letting the light hit just right.
Basically… life goals. 😍
How’s your Friday going?

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Did you know I’ve been working on a book?

Maybe if you’ve been following me for a while, you’ve seen me share a few bits here and there when I first started it. But I feel like I need to start again and give you the full picture.

I had a really hard time when I was breastfeeding my daughter. For a long time, I thought I was the only one who found it hard. The only one carrying that weight of doubt, guilt, and shame.
But I wasn’t. And neither are you.

At some point, I found myself asking: Why don’t we talk about breastfeeding honestly?
The challenges. The struggles. The pain. The real talk, you know?

This project was born from my own experience and from the stories of so many incredible women who shared their journeys with me. It’s about bringing more awareness, about making sure no mother feels alone in this, and about breaking the silence that so often leaves us blaming ourselves.

Because every journey is different. And every story deserves to be told.

Over the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing more about this project that means so much to me, the one I’ve truly put my heart into.

I’d love for you to follow along. 

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